When I was training in San Soo at Jimmy Woo’s El Monte studio; among my favorite people there was a man named Paul. Paul was a very polite, brownish haired young man of medium height with the build of a brick layer (which he was).
Paul was a brown belt at the time and someone I really enjoyed training with.
Not only was he a great workout partner, if he had a question he would check with the ultimate source. The ultimate source at the time was our teacher, Jimmy Woo.
One Saturday afternoon while we were in the workout area, I noticed Paul was losing his half horse stance by lifting his back heel when he punched. Something like a boxer would do. Because Jimmy had drilled into me the importance of maintaining a strong half horse stance which included keeping your feet flat and never lifting your back heel when you punch, I wanted to help Paul before he developed a very bad habit.
I stopped our work out and talked to Paul about what he was doing. Paul explained he had begun lifting his heel to gain more distance and power behind his punches. I understood his reasoning but explained why in style of San Soo that Jimmy taught, raising the back heel was wrong.
Explaining as I had learned from Jimmy, I demonstrated the difference between lifting the back heel and keeping it solidly on the ground.
Although Paul seemed to understand what I was saying, I could see in his eyes that he was evaluating the information.
Later when we agreed to take a break Paul left and I later saw him walk up to Jimmy. I could tell by his actions and gestures that he was asking Jimmy about what I had just told him.
I grabbed a new workout partner and later when I took another break, Paul walked up to me.
“Hey,” he said, “I asked Jimmy about lifting your back heel and he told me the same thing that you did. He said not to do it. I just wanted to let you know that I asked him because I wanted to make sure that I’m learning the right thing because I want to do it correctly. I thought you should know that I asked him about what you said.”
“No problem,” I answered, “come on, let’s work out.”
Not only was Paul a good partner but he was a good man. I recognized that he wanted to learn the Art correctly, that he felt it was good to question and not take something at face value and he knew enough to go to the source when he had a question. But more importantly, he was man enough to tell me what he had done to let me know that he was not talking behind my back.
What an example to follow!
On the flip side, when people ask me today about the right and wrong way to do San Soo I'll tell them what I know and then simply direct them to watch internet videos of Jimmy. As they say, "One picture tells a thousand words."